We lose ourselves.
We lose the peculiarities we once carried with utmost proud.
In the midst of finding the quite overrated ‘love’, unknowingly, we tend to become what they are. And, it’d be quite boring to love someone who is same as you.
It can be -to me. Wouldn’t it be the case with you?
(So, I won’t ask how often have you lost yourself in finding them. I’d rather ask how many times have you felt deep regret about the same.)
-Ananya, The Verbal Seduction.