Praise
via Daily Prompt: Praise
Morning Coffee. Love. Oxygen. Home. Afternoon Coffee. Friends. Lovers. Money. Evening Coffee. Food. Sex. Dreams. One-last-coffee-before-sleep.
Well, these were the sine qua non of a beautiful life.
Did I just miss something?
Imagine you made steaming hot, kinda sassy coffee for ’em.
Did you just expect ’em to praise you for that?
Imagine you crossed borders to just see ’em & to show you love ’em.
Did you just expect ’em to praise you a li’l ?
Imagine you just gave ’em a sex for the lifetime.
Did you just expect ’em to praise you for rocking in that couch?
Got what went missing. This one 6 letter small word.
P R A I S E.
We fail terribly in realizing how this small word rules our world. How it takes control of our emotions and feelings. Not to say that this word ‘praise’ shouldn’t be given this much power but one must realize its importance for the existence of happiness in our lives and others, too, as a matter of fact.
Why do we do some stuff for others and a billion of things for our loved ones’?
For their sole satisfaction?
No.
We are ‘humans’. Ya, I know you know that. But, It’s hard for us to do things solely for anyone. There lies a slight touch of ‘selfishness’ behind it. And by selfishness I mean – our own happiness within theirs. Where do we find our happiness, though? How do we secretly fulfill our selfish agenda?
It is not merely in their smile but also in the way and to the amount of extent they praise us. ‘Cause if they don’t, we begin to feel ‘taken-for-granted’.
You just felt offended,right? I know.
The world is full of
‘Whatever I’ll ever do,
will be only for you.
Would expect nothin’ in return,
May you be my dusk but I’ll be your sun.’
kinda people, more specifically, ‘lovers’.
L I A R S.
Who are we lying to? Our own selves.
We do expect every time. Every single time.
We do expect ’em to praise us. Laud us. Applaud us. If not flatter than at least thank us. And ‘rest-of-the-praise-synonyms’ us.
Sadly, the world praise us less, pounds us more.
Even more sadly, the world is us. You. Me. Most of us.
If we hold that much of sensitivity towards how important praisal is to us then why do we forget that it is equally crucial for those who do things for us, care for us, love us, respect us, makes coffee for us.
The theory is quite simple,
If you expect nothin’ but a ‘thank-you’ then begin applauding ’em, too.
Maybe, it’s tit-for-tat.
So, when was the last time you praised someone?
…..
There’s a lot more beyond just praising the lord.
Not to forget, you gotta praise yourself, too.
P.S. Praise brings peace.💝
-Ananya, the verbal seduction.💓
December 17, 2016 at 1:39 am
👍👍👍👍
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December 20, 2016 at 5:31 pm
Thank you for reading this long lost post, Christopher. 😀
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December 20, 2016 at 5:44 pm
Well it wasn’t long or lost because some how it found its way to me like we were ment for each other… I love your work and I probably have read everything you wrote. So you don’t have to thank me cuz reading your words are thanks enough… Plus I get to Know the author.😉
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December 21, 2016 at 7:50 am
Wow! Thank you for so many beautiful words for appreciating me. You’re kind to do it all, Christopher.
You deserve whole lot of happiness for being so pious. 🙂
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December 21, 2016 at 8:05 am
Well maybe one day but not today… Glad I could make you happy though..
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December 21, 2016 at 9:10 am
I wish. 🙂
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December 21, 2016 at 9:40 am
You are such a sweet girl… I don’t normally smile but you shore no how to make that happen… No lie! I really really appreciate you for every little word you say to me. Thank you Ananya your words are my Christmas gift.😘✌
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December 21, 2016 at 11:19 am
Hahahaha! Are you this sweet all the time, Christopher?
By the way, hehe..if my words are christmas gift for you then Ho Ho Ho! Hi there, I’m Santa. 😀 😀
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December 21, 2016 at 12:43 pm
I’m sweet to those who are sweet to me… And you are getting bad for My teeth. And by the way I hate that lie called Christmas.. And if I’m not mistaken your Muslim so I know you don’t support that trash. Plus I never got anything eather. I have a hand full of family members and associates that are Muslim so I’m very fimilar. Don’t be mad at me But I think I might just write you a love letter… Lol… But that would just be cheesey and lame rite… Hahaha…😄
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December 21, 2016 at 4:44 pm
You are mistaken, Christopher. You are. I’m a Hindu and not Muslim. ( If you’ve read India culture, you must have heard *Hindu-Muslim* quite a number of times ).
So, did my post “Pride and Plight of a Muslimah” caused this confusion?
And I don’t support what? -The whole ‘Santa’ thing?
Haha! Well, that wasn’t cheesy at all. I just can’t thank you much for the loads and loads of praising comments that you’ve made. 🙂
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December 21, 2016 at 4:49 pm
My deepest apologies… And yes that poem did.
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December 21, 2016 at 4:54 pm
I think for now on I’m just going to reply to your messages like this….👍… And I’ll stop with all the complements if I’m smothering you with them.. Lol!
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December 21, 2016 at 4:57 pm
Do you like Christmas?
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December 22, 2016 at 4:10 pm
Haha! No, You aren’t smothering at all? Who in this world feels smothered on getting appreciation? 😛
And, Ya, Coming from Christian school, I love Christmas. 🙂
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December 22, 2016 at 6:12 pm
Ok I get the point now😎👍
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